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Imperfection is beauty. Madness is genius. & it's better to be absolutely rediculous than to be absolutely stupid- Marilyn Monroe ♥



"Dance Like No Ones Watching.."

"We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another.

Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are.

After that we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.

We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire.

The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now.

If not now ... when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza ..

."For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin.But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.

Happiness is the way.So, treasure every moment that you have.

And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time ... and remember that time waits for no one ...

So stop waiting until you finish school ... until you go back to school ... until you lose ten pounds ... until you gain ten pounds ... until you have kids ... until your kids leave the house ... until you start work ... until you retire ... until you get married ... until you get divorced ... until Friday night ... until Sunday morning ... until you get a new car or home ... until your car or home is paid off ... until spring, until summer ... until fall ... until winter ... until you are off welfare ... until the first or fifteenth ... until your song comes on ... until you've had a drink ... until you've sobered up ... until you die ... until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy ...

Happiness is a journey ... not a destination!!

Thought for the day:

"Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching."


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time of our lives..=]

theres a time for us to let go,
theres a time for holding on,
a time to speak,
a time to listen ...
theres a time for us to go,
theres a time for getting high,
a time for peace,
a time for fighting,
a time to live,
a time to die,
a time to scream,
a time for silence...
theres a time to understand,
a time for hurt,
a time for healing.......
THIS is the time of our lives

You won't be his first, his last, or his only . He's loved before, he will love again but if he LOVES YOU NOW what else matters? He's not perfect, and neither are you ,and the two of you will never be perfect but if he makes you laugh, atleast once causes you to think twice, and admits to being human, and making mistakes...hold on to him, and give him all you've got . He is not going to quote poetry, he is not going to be thinking about YOU every moment, but he will give you a part of him, that he knows you can break. Dont hurt him, dont change him, dont expect too much from him, smile when he makes you happy,cry when he makes you sad and miss him when hes not there...